And people wonder why I am so bitchy. -not me
It just occurred to me why some people are so negative, angry and enjoy putting people down!
They are so exhausted!
It must take a lot of energy being an asshole, spraying their shit everywhere.Their constant diarrhea exploding from their mouth to make everyone else as miserable as they are.
God forbid if anyone Steals their spotlight!
It is amazing how one narcissistic person can be a raging green-eyed monster if the focus isn’t on her, about her.
Until today I couldn’t understand why or how one person could be so mean horrible and negative, and the realization dawned on me. She was jealous.
Of what. I don’t know. I always knew she was a narcissistic egomaniac, but how much of one? Was unclear until I spent an hour listening to her spew her nonsense.
It was nonsense. Narcissists really have high delusions about themselves and the people around them.
I sighed. “You are too sensitive. Get over it.”
That really pissed her off, which meant more rambling on about stuff.
“Who cares. Who cares about what others say about you, to you. Walk away. Just say thank you. Walk away.” I sighed again.
“You don’t know. You don’t have people in your face.” blah blah.
Then she had the gall to bring up how I interact with others. What I do, how I act reflects on her. I was the reason she wasnt getting employee of the month or a raise.
My jaw just dropped.
I coolly point out I dont complain about everything, about people, where I am stationed. I am polite and kind. I am Funny. I don’t repeat myself. I will ask once. If I have to ask again I will tell a person damn right. I don’t like to waste my time. I like communication, which she has a hard time with. She has to butt into everybody else’s business.
Well, it was as if I had kicked her in the baby maker! Her eyes bulged out, her nostrils flared and she went off in to another tangent about “no one likes you, Rebecca! You are a horrible person! People hate working with you! They are so happy working with me!”
I rolled my eyes. Oh sure they are. “Whatever.” I sighed. She was upset because other people were asking when I would be back at work.
Again she went off how people were treating her. “Just walk away. Walk away. Ignore them. It’s your attitude.” I sighed. “Get over yourself. Just ignore them.”
My point was proven because as soon as somebody asked her to do something she would bark at them.
I just can’t believe it took me this long to realize how jealous and insecure she is about everybody.
That is a whole lot of crazy!