If you were single and quite wealthy how would you weed out the gold diggers?
I am neither rich nor poor, however the last seven months had me living paycheque to paycheque. I feel extremely grateful that I am not in dire straits due to my treatment. my friend was not so lucky.
That is not answering the question. If I was rich and about to date someone, I would hope I was savvy enough to keep my wealth on the down lo.
I would meet my date in a low key restaurant, not too fancy. My clothes off the rack, rather than designer. Since I don’t drive and I distrust Uber and cabs I would hire a car. Nothing too flashy.
Like my favourite character Oliver Rain (wildest hearts by Jayne Ann Krentz) I would have a dossier on my date.
We would have low key dates for awhile. Asking them about their goals in life, aspirations etc.
Start gauging their reaction to things like:
I don’t have transportation
I like simple life simple pleasures
Would they terribly mind if I bought them a thoughtful gift not an expensive (at first)
If I was wealthy I would be genuinely grateful for what I have. I would also be generous. Be happy to make others happy.
Maybe I would be ineffective in revealing a gold digger but I would hope I never have to. I would never like to become a gold digger.
I would like to be someone a person could enjoy spending time with. I would like to be loved foremost than perhaps spoiled and my every whim and desire indulged in.