I can’t believe my cat lady years are well on its way!

I have two cats.

I’m single. Old. Now I just need a nice comfy chair to sit with both cats🥰🥰

Someone commented the other day on why I wasn’t married.

Annie replied “she doesn’t like men” then went onto say “she doesn’t like women either”

I burst out laughing “so true. I’m sexually ambiguous. But I don’t want the drama”

“why you don’t have children?”

I glared at them. “I have 2. I have two children”

“But cats aren’t children!”

What did you say to me?

That conversation ended quickly.

I don’t understand why people find it hard to accept that others don’t want children. In my case, I didn’t want children and now I can’t.

I’m not emotionally equipped to deal with a child. So I chose cats instead.

Anyway, my niece turned 16 last week.

She was afraid I would forget. I didn’t. That’s because I can’t believe she was turning 16!

Then she told me she got a job and a boyfriend.

My jaw hit the floor. I was never so proud of my niece in that moment. Becoming motivated to get a job! Then I realized she said boyfriend!


Oh my word, what is happening?!

Oh well why was I surprised? She had numerous girlfriends. And started to date a boy before she moved.

But he has a car.

Nope. My auntie heart can’t take it. Can’t cope with the idea my baby niece is growing up so much!

♥writing was all I had, all I’ve ever had, the only currency, the only proof that I was alive. Memory.♥ each of us has a story to tell. Leave your thoughts. Leave your comments.

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