Trying to eat healthy

I had been violently ill this week.

My kryptonite?


Suck it up princess because there is no way I’m giving up my favourite breakfast item!

On my break

Finishing up my breakfast and a video on YouTube about The Teahorse Road in China

Back to work.

Ugh Monopoly has begun!

Oh well I am taking cash. Don’t have to deal😜💕

You choose

You want to die with him. But do you know whether or not if he wants to die with you?

Since you want to see him…


Let’s go see him. However I need to clear things up with you.

If you were to do anything to debase your status I will kill everyone in your palace. These people. Your nanny. Your maid that you grew up with.

If you think all their lives can’t compare with Yan Xun’s life you can just mess around as you like. I will show no mercy!

-The Royal Concubine’s ultimatum to Chun’r.

Princess Agents episode 23

mama Shu isn’t putting up with this bullshit anymore!



Relationships are never perfect because no one is perfect.  Sharing emotions and intimacy can leave a person exposed, vulnerable. Yet being loved by someone allows a person to feel safe and powerful at once. It gives them strength.

Everybody has some level expected to be met,  they feel let down when they aren’t.  Which is why they feel the need to sabotage the relationship over the littlest things.

Ladies first:

  • If a man has integrity and honor, he will uphold his promises. He will not make promises he cant keep. He will respect you. He will deflect other women’s flirting. He will make it known you are his woman and not to disrespect his relationship. (but am I daydreaming?)
  • If he treats his mama right, he will treat you right. But don’t get the shit twisted! He is to put you first. He is to defend you. He will ask that his family treat you right, just as he will ask you to do the same.
  • If your man comes home from work and wants to chill out by playing video games? who cares. He wants to de-stress. Join him. Kick his ass in a game. Or if you don’t know how to play, let him teach you. You can make it a little sexy. If you die you have to put on a striptease or something. Don’t bitch at him because he wants to chill out.
  • If your man wants to hang out with his friends? Why are you complaining? You can have a spa night with your friends or by yourself. You can hang out with your friends. Or you can put on your sexiest lingerie so when he comes home you can remind him the next time he won’t have to decide. he will have you or his boys
  • If your man is checking out another woman, don’t have a freakout. He is with you. Admire her too. Don’t be angry at the other woman, she has no control what your man does. She is minding her own business.
  • Appreciate your man. Ask how your man is doing. Don’t let the first words be when he comes home “How was work.” Notice the smallest things. light candles so you both can chill when you both come home from work. offer a massage.
  • Don’t play games. if he asks you what is wrong, and you say nothing. He walks away. Don’t get pissed off. He asked you what was wrong! Say what was wrong.
  • Texting is not a form of communication. Put the cell phone away! You are together. Enjoy yourself.
  • if he asked you if you want something to eat, say you are hungry! Don’t wait til he is eating and ask if you can have some. (Oh my god that is my pet peeve. I don’t share my food anymore!!!)
  • if a man starts out sweet and kind but neglects you don’t stick around. You are too good. You already have one asshole why do you need another?
  • If a man becomes abusive, leave! even emotional? Get out! NOW! you don’t need him. He doesn’t love you. It’s about power and control. He will manipulate you thinking you need him. He is sorry and he won’t do it again. All lies, LEAVE! GET OUT!


  • Your woman has eyes for you. She is focused on you. She gets freaky and jealous. When another woman starts coming up to you and flirts, run! “I have a girlfriend. Nice to meet you. Got to go. My wife will kill you. Bye bye!” dont stand there and let her hang all over you. Why do you have a death wish!
  • Your woman wants to be appreciated for even the smallest things. Notice the smallest things. Remember the oddest conversations she has had with you. Ask about her cat when she was 12!
  • Your mama raised you, but now you are with your woman. Your mama was first in your life, but now she is second. If your mama is dissing your woman you need to say that is not allowed. (special circumstances? if your woman is a psycho-bitch) your mama cant disrespect your woman in your house. And your woman cant disrespect your family in their homes. Oh shit no!
  • if your woman is telling you to stop hanging out with a female friend. Do it. She knows that woman wants you. Don’t shrug her off. (oh that is so me-cringing) unless you have a death wish!
  • If your woman asks you to pick up after yourself to the point of nagging? She is not your mama! She is your lover! You want a maid, hire one! You are a grown ass man, clean up after yourself! A woman should ask only once for help, and a man shouldn’t be nagged to help.  you’re living together. clean together. less stress.
  • if your woman stays home looking after your babies, and you come home asking her what she did all day? oh boy! Do not do that!
  • Communication: if she asks you how you are feeling, don’t shrug her off. She wants to talk. So talk. Even if you want to bury your head in the sand.
  • Texting is not a form of communication. Put the cell phone away! You are together. Enjoy yourself.
  • if your woman worked a 12 hour day why not give her a foot massage, run her a bath? make her favorite dinner?
  • take her dancing, her to a movie, have a picnic enjoy each other
  • remember the anniversaries and birthdays!
  • compliment her often even though she has bed hair tell her “i love you”
  • If she has drama. She is too controlling. Throwing ultimatums. You don’t need it. Show her the door.
  • “if you love me you will” that’s emotional manipulation. Even emotion abuse. Don’t put up with any kind of abuse. It is sad that emotional and physical abuse is a double standard, but it is. Women can be just hateful and spiteful in a relationship.

one of the things that you do learn is that falling in love and being in love with someone is a rarity. That you don’t fall in love as many times as you think you’re going to. And then when you do, it’s really special; it’s really important.

-a post inspired by a dream I had. Unfortunately, I don’t think it came out right 🙂


My niece wanted a cup for water. She came out of the kitchen with a disgusted expression on her face holding up one of my Kylo Ren mugs. I asked her what was wrong. “Why do you have so many Star Wars stuff in your apartment! You’re a girl! Not a man! you have mugs,water bottles a candy dispenser you had your cake decorated! You are too obsessed”

I laughed so hard at her question.

The answer is quite obvious “one cannot have enough Star Wars anything!”

“You are such a nerd, auntie!” She sighed

“I know”


I had a lovely fanfiction for REVENGE thought out this morning. When I sat down to write it my brain farted. So I am

♥Updating my Erotic Fiction page♥




I love Hayley.

She has just a wonderful voice. Her videos are dreamy.

While I was watching this video the one thought that struck me was how her music was so relatable. Especially to young teenagers who are conflicted about who they are, who they thought are they supposed to be.

Having to hide who you are especially to people who love you are is wrong. They should accept you and support you.

A Million Dollars – 4

Another wonderful sexy story!



While I slumbered in the bed, Becky and Holly got busy in the shower. They had all five shower heads spraying and the water was hot and steam filled the room. Holly reached for the large plug in Becky’s ass and pulled it out. Of course, Becky felt empty now that the plug was no longer filling her. Holly told Becky, “Wait a minute. I’ll be right back.”

Becky stood under the sultry flow of water, letting the liquid flow over her shoulders and down her breasts. Rivulets of water passed between her tits and across her belly as she became lost in thought, “Trip is something else. Setting this all up just for me. I’m so thankful he wasn’t just blowing smoke up my butt about the million dollar trip. It was so amazing being in his arms alone when Holly was showering. I can’t wait to be…

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Wedding Haka

A maori traditional wedding

I burst into tears when I watched this! It’s so emotional!

the one thought that came to mind while I watched, was how much this family loved her and was accepting her new husband. 💕